THE LONELINESS

                                               THE LONELINESS

Loneliness is a complex and usually unpleasant emotional response to isolation. Some things or syntoms that include the loneliness are anxious feelings about a lack of connection or communication with other beings. Loneliness can be felt even when you are surrounded by other people and one who feels lonely. The causes of loneliness are varied and include social, mental, emotional, and physical factors. Some Researchs has shown that loneliness is prevalent throughout society, including people in marriages, relationships, families, veterans, and those with successful careers. Sometimes you can have all the things that you want, but you still feel like you are alone, even if you are sorrounded by a lot Friends, you think or you feel that you are alone, and it can happen to all of us.

An example of the loneliness is some famous people, like singers or actors, some of us we know the history of some actors and singers that they use to have all, but they feel alone or depressing, and some of this cases end with a tradegy like suicide, or few other things,

 People can experience loneliness for many reasons, and many life events may cause it, such as a lack of friendship relations during childhood and adolescence, or the physical absence of meaningful people around a person. At the same time, loneliness may be a symptom of another social or psychological problem, such as depression.

Some people experience with loneliness in their childhood, when you feel lonely or experiment with loneliness it can affect you when you are an adult, because you can have severe memories of your childhood that can affect you.

The lost of a significant person can really affect you, and after you can start to experiment with loneliness and feel very depressing, or if you don´t have a lot of Friends you can experimey with loneliness.

Is very common that sometimes we feel alone, we feel that we don´t have somebody to talk, to hangout, or to share things, i can tell you that sometimes i feel like that way too, we usually thing that we dont have somebody to count with even if you are sorrounded by your Friends, sometimes you think if you are important for them like they are for you, or in another severe cases we act and think that we are alone, or some people who feel alone and don´t want to accept it, they usually  believe that they have a lot of Friends, but some of his friendships are fake, and they don´t want to see it!

My experience with the loneliness has been a Little difficult because sometimes i feel sad and i want to tell somebody how i feel but in that momento i think that i am lonelyand nobody cares about me or about what is happening to me, but i always try to find a way to feel better, sometimes i talk with my cousin how i feel and he understand me and support me, we as family always try to help and support each other, if he is passing for a difficult momento he talks to me and he tells me how he feel, and al lis mutual, another thing that i do when i feel sad is to listen music and write how i feel, because i think when i do that i can calm down and think about me and if i am lonely.

I have a lot  of friends that sometimes felt like they are lonely too, and i always try to support them and let them know that they can count on me, that if they feel sad or lonely, i´ll be there for al lof them, because i know how it feels and i dont want that some of my friends can get a severe situation, so i always try to help them and i tried to made them laugh and feel happy, i take my time to find out why they feel like that and what can i help with, to do this blog i told my friends if they can help telling me why they soemtimes feel alone and depressing, and the answer of most of my fiends was  because they feel like they borred the people when they are telling his conflicts and problems, they say that sometimes they prefer to quit her problems and sometimes prefer to cry tan tell her problems to somebody, they told me that the people sometimes want that you be there for them when they feel sad, but when you feel sad or lonely they don´t be there for you, and they get mad and sad, they told me that when her day get bad or if they want to do somethings, but some reason they can´t they usually get mad and sad.

We need to express our thoughts and emotions and listen and help when somebody needs it, i want to tell you and let you know something guys! When you or your fiends feel sad or alone, you must have to expreses your emotions and listen how your friends feel, you have to support them and help them, that is a true friendship! The true friendship is when that person is there for you in the Good and bad days, you must have a lot of friends, but if they are fake friendships, why you continue calling they as your “friends”? i just want tol et you know that and told you that ypu are not alone, you can count with your true friends and your family as i do!

Thank you guys! I hope i can help you with this blog!